Hello - I was just diagnosed with TN a week ago today. The day after my symptoms started I interviewed for the job I have always wanted. Even after interviewing horribly I was offered the job as I have a very good reputation. However, having TN and starting a new job seems very, very overwhelming. I find it very hard to concentrate and keep focused. On the upside, this job will have much better hours which will allow me to spend much more thine with my family (I have a husband and three young daughters). I’m just wondering how others handle the anxiety of being diagnosed with TN and try to balance life on top of it all? My pain is being managed for now with anticonvulsant medication. However, knowing that the pain can come back and feeling what I call “pressure” is overwhelming. I should be excited for this new opportunity but instead I’m afraid. Any advise??
I have been working and living with TN for 7 years now. I have worked with pain so awful I can't talk. I have cried at my desk. I had succesfully hid it at work until last year. My boss is understanding to it. I have missed days or gone home early because of TN. I am having MVD on May 19th. I will be working from home while I recover.
Organizing your life around TN is not easy. Each of us find our own way. You need a good neurologist and eventually a neurosurgeon. Educate yourself and let the important people in your life know whats going on. This site is helpful for not only yourself but for your loved ones also. If someone doesn't understand what you are going through, send them here. They will get a clue quick.
I hope this helps.
Bobbie