You are here at one of THE best place - to learn about chronic TN pain. You have a good start on meds, and yes we all started with grieving eventually..... there is no cure. BUT THERE IS HOPE! Your best hope is to LEARN as much as you can - on this site - and this book most of us read "Striking Back" by Dr. Ken Casey
I'm gonna give you a short cut - I got it at age 47, in October 2010 -- 1 year later to the month I had MVD surgery - I am at year 2 now after MVD (cranial not brain surgery) and am pain free and med free. 90%+ will stay away for me, in remission possibly for years.... nobody knows. 2 days in hospital, 3 weeks laid in bed.
1. Because I went to one of THEEEE top TN surgeon on the planet earth--- Dr. Casey above....
There was no such surgeon here in KC or near it. I read everything I could read about it here and in the book. MVD those who are pain free, or less pain, don't come here anymore!
2. If you get MVD within first 3 years your % can be high 90% / if you do NOT have Gamma/Lazer / Cyber BEFORE MVD, your surgery stays in WAY top percent. MOST of us have never had our compression-nerve on an MRI - they have to go in and find it. Fiesta MRI is hard to find, but if its in your location - that would most likely show your compression(s)
3. Immediately get the doctor to just call in for you - LIDOCAINE patches for your face - no appt. necessary. Can help up to 12 hours - and keep your meds dose lower!!!! Lidocaine mouthwash if needed for inside!
So - I just wanted to show you what a good outcome can look like -- most in history - have not been on the right meds , did not get the diagnose for years, dentists pulled all their teeth, or gave them TMJ script, or many root canals.....or tried to get cured by chiropractic and quackery.
So you are at a good crossroad---AND if you see the doctors tab above - good MVD guru's --TN neurosurgeons that only do TN/MVD......
in NY and John Hopkins- Baltimore
The more you Ask / Read / Learn / Repeat --- your chances of having better outcomes can be okay.....
Sometimes, you can do alllll the right things,
best doc, best meds, best family, best anatomy.....and STILL the TN dragon won't let go..... but the more you grab it by the horns, .....you can have a hand in your own destiny, not just a passive patient - that is the Last Thing to be!
http://www.livingwithtn.org/forum/topics/an-important-reminder-for-...
This is for your grieving I wrote on here---- also search box - for Spoon Theory - that helps
and you must know that you have to let go of WHAT gave you TN--- now its only a matter of what you do for yourself!
I think mine came from many whiplashes over the years, then a BAD oral surgeon yanked my neck while I was out if it.... but I wasted too much time - to give too much time of the why --- some kids get this! - babies! -- there no known absolute researched of the WHY TN - WHEN TN - HOW TN --- let it blow off your shoulder and be in the present, let go of the yesterday. Its okay!