Hello Debbie,
I have the same problem. Eating, chewing brings on flare-ups that can last for hours in my case.
I try to eat normally most of the time, knowing I will have to pay anyway, just for health reasons. But, when I have to take it SERIOUSLY easy on my jaws and teeth, my staples are that wonderfully flavored new oatmeal that is now available. It is so easy, because you simply pour it in the bowl, fill the package it comes in up to marking it provides, pour the water from the package into the bowl, and pop it in the Microwave for 2 mins. Since weight gain is an issue for me because I am on Neurontin, this is delicious with a bit of smart balance, but it already comes sweetened most of the times. I love the Strawberry, Blueberry, Chocolate and Maple.
Bananas, blueberries, and sweet potatoes seem to be well tolerated by me. Bananas are packed with Potassium. Sweet Potatoes are a great source of Vitamin A, and blueberries are a "superfood" packed with antioxidants.
If I am unable to eat meat, I just grab a spoon or two of peanut butter, or Nutella for protein.
Yogurt is soft and provides calcium, as does cottage cheese.
I wonder if anyone else has the problem I have. The acidic property of citrus (which I love) seems to bring on flare-ups. Anything mostly acidic can bring on a flare-up of my mouth burning and my gums aching. I cannot even drink soft drinks, like Fresca, or Orange Crush without my teeth hurting and my mouth becoming tender and searing.
When dealing with ATN, I definitely think what is eaten, and the consistency of what is eaten comes into play. Since the condition is Neuropathic, I wonder why. Huh?
Good luck! I'm sorry you're having this problem too.
Stef