Hi Lizzy, I would certainly appeal if I was you. As my dear friend above said, you have to detail absolutely everthing to them from getting up, how you are on a morning, dizzy, wobbly, foggy mind, carrying times you get up, as 8 couldn’t say that I could be up dressed etc by 8 ‘o’ clock everyday as soon days I don’t, can’t get uo until possibly 10 am and then I’m there in body but not in mind, as you probably experience. I was/am unable to tolerate the meds so I had to go into very minute detail how I react to them or should I say how they make me feel! Also, you need to go from how you feel and how the TN affects you on your very worsed day and how others have to help you and what they need to do to help and keep you safe. Who cooks your meals due to danger/confusion due to the meds. I made the mistake of thinking I could cook xmas lunch in the early years of my TN, until I rushed to A&E through putting my full hand on a hot ring and burning the whole of my palm and fingers! In other words I am no longer safe to be left alone in the kitchen. Also, what is your safety like in the bath/shower, are you safe? Do you get dizzy and fall/stumble? Do you need someone in the house when you shower again for safety reasons, does the steam etc bring on the pain as it does with myself. How often you shower or bath due to your condition. Are you suffering with any form of depression, I know I am, I’ve put on so much weight due to the medication which gets me down, the illness itself is enough to make one depressed, it’s destroyed my life, taken my identity away, I’m no longer able to work so, yeah, this bloody illness has made me depressed and angry. We have to come to terms with the fact that our lives have changed and have changed for good but it’s really not that easy to accept!
You also need to go into detail of how it affects you during the night ie, it wakes you up, disturbs your sleep on a nightly basis, you need to take top up medication when this happens and as a result how this affects you, it makes you sleepy and therefore, you sleep in.
Take each question and break it down as how it affects you, you’re husband, partner, children and family etc, not forgetting how it affects yourself lol. Really play on it, as I said earlier, from your worsed day. The form try’s to trip you up so be very careful when filling it in, don’t be afraid of repeating yourself this is what they are looking for, consistencies!
I hope the above helps, please feel free to private message me if you need anymore advise/help for want of better words, which reminds me, tell them how the meds affects your memory, word searching in fact your whole cognition the more you tell them, the better it is, if you know what I mean.
Please keep n touch and let me know what happens,
Yours Mandy
And Chancery, so sorry for not been in touch recently. Will try and sit down tomorrow and write to you, I do often think about you and how you are doing, honestly lol xxx