Triggers and long hair

I didn't have really long hair.. i had a fit today and cut about 5 inches off. I feel like sometimes something's pulling on my head or that I have a tight helmet on. Like a "tight pony tail headache' but I dont really wear tight ponytails. Does anyone else have this issue? It drives me bonkers at times because it will make my whole head and face feel numbish.

Another thing.. I'm afraid to go to my local ER for any flares.. it's a rather small hospital and the nurses/doctors in the ER treat everyone as if they are a great inconvenience. My last visit I had a reaction to an antibiotic they gave me and now I'd rather die than go back. (they treat me sometimes if I have Munchausen. And when I have a flare and go to the ER if they're snooty, I'm likely to harm someone. I dont like to be messed with when I hurt like that.

I keep thinking it's this bad tooth I have, but to be honest... it doesn't FEEL like a normal toothache.. anyone know what I mean?

I get something simular my face will start to tingle and burn and then it feels like the whole side of my head is in a vise from just above my eye and up and over my head to the base of my skull