So I was told I would be in the hospital 3-5 nights, but I was only there for 2 — one night in the neuro ICU and one in a reg. neuro room. The moment I got home I slept for like 6 hrs strait and it was awesome.
1) you aren't suppose to lift anything + you can't really hold your head up very well so you need lots of pillows to prop yourself up and anything you eat, either you need someone to bring to you or you need like pre-portioned ahead of time. I think I read that some people had a hard time chewing, I didn't. I was just sick from the sleepy drugs for a few days.
2) you can't wash your hair and pay a lot of money to be platinum blonde ... my best friend came over and use diluted baby shampoo in a spray bottle and a wash cloth and she "washed" my hair while I laid on my bed on a pillow covered in a towel so that she could get the rest of the iodine out + the blood (I was in a halo when they did surgery so I had little tiny scabs in my scalp) ... and then she rinsed with warm water from one of those plastic bottle you use to color your hair at home
3) I was so full of pain meds I didn't go to the bathroom for 5 days ... that was AWFUL. The hospital gave me stool softeners but that wasn't doing anything. I also bought Miralax ... go get some of that and start taking that when you get home too. Also, we are into juicing which was good so that I could actually get some good nutrients. I suggest smoothies as well to try and get some good things in you ... as opposed to just jello and soup. You can eat whatever you want, but I just wasn't in to eating a "real" meal for a bit
4) I watched TV and movies all day ... I spoke with a woman who couldn't watch TV so she did books on tape and then eventually read. I took 5 weeks off of work .. I think I watched the movie "the Help" every single day
5) make a drug calendar on a white board or make a print out on a clip board or something so that you can/or other people who are helping you can keep track of what drugs you took when ... they give you so much crap when you are discharged its hard to keep it all strait
6) WALK ... whoever was with me for the day walked with me ... walked around the house, walked around the block, I went outside, went to breakfast etc. You feel SO much more normal when you walk, move, go for a car ride, leave the house. Make sure you leave the house once you are feeling well enough to get up and go to the bathroom, bath etc.
Honestly, it went by SO fast. I had 5 weeks at home and I really felt like for me that was the perfect amount of time. By the time I was back to work I felt like I was really ready to be back to work. I was honestly starting to get board. I had some minor pain occasionally after, but was told that was normal and that it would go away and it did!! Plus, oh so I had wax in my ear canal or something so when I woke up I couldn't hear out of my left ear and I was freaking out ... but I guess that they do that so that you don't get any fluid leaking or something. Anyhow, that took about a month to clear up. It's been 6 months for me and I'm a NEW PERSON. PAIN FREE, DRUG FREE. It's AMAZING. I would 100% have surgery again. Absolutely. Please do not hesitate to ask my any more questions. It's a wonderful experience ... you will be SO HAPPY.
Yvette said:
Jessica...what did you nd what weere you able to do t home while recooperating?
JessicaG said:
THAT IS SO SOON!!! Relief is just a few weeks away ... your life will forever be changed in a GOOD way!!!
Victoria Swan said:
Hi Tinah and Jessica , good news I have a date for my surgery it's the 9th of July ,,, so scared but relived you have both been through this and are a great support and have given exactly what to expect befor and after surgery he said I should only be in hospital for 2 -3 days so will be able to come home to get better x