Wow! It does sounds like we newbies have way too similar stories (as I am sure it is true with many veterans of this disorder). Yes, it truly does help to know that there are others out there in the same position that I am in. Sometimes just venting helps.
I have used a small heating pad (my Mom makes the covers for them too) that really does help... while it's on! Then, when I take it off, the pain comes back.
I will discuss my meds with my neurologist as I am currently taking Relpax (a migraine med) and then I wake with a migraine. Uh, duh. Isn't it supposed to get rid of headaches, not give me one?
I, too, have a pretty high pain threshold. Also, when it is constant, it "grows" on me... don't like it, but it's there.
Yes, my ears hurt too. But, I've had ear issues over the last decade with my chronic sinusitis (that's why I thought this might be sinus related too). I had tubes in my ears twice (once in 2004 and the other in 2007) and so I have damage to my eardrums anyway.
My paid started in my cheeks and then it went up to my eye sockets and down to my teeth. I can hardly touch my face at all anymore and sometimes can only eat stuff like mashed taters.
I have also developed a few regular "twitches." One around my eye (three different spots) and the other above my lip on the right.
You can almost always tell by looking at the color of my face how much pain I'm in. My nose looks like Rudolph with Ragedy Ann cheeks.
On the rare times that I feel close to normal... I sit going, "Ok, when's it gonna hit." But, the dizzies are the kicker. Just minding my own business (sitting, standing, or lying down), just KaZaam! I'm dizzy. I'm almost amused by the times that I'm just waking up and I get dizzy. Really?? Dizzy in bed, not moving or anything. LOL
One thing I've learned are my triggers. My hair is one. So, I'm trying to be very diligent about it. I have long, thick hair (most of the time, this is a good thing) and cannot wear it in a pony tail anymore. I try to cut down on my singing to the radio... cuz it hurts. But, I talk on the phone at my job, so I can't stop talking. The cold air, another trigger. Living in Nebraska, I can't avoid it (even with warm winters as this one has been). I just try to make my trips outside quick and wear a scarf if needed.
I gotta say... just know what this is, is a huge relief. Then, to know there is no "fix"... ARGH!
Another frustrating thing... I lost 30 pounds and then gained it back. So, I want to lose it again (before I am 40 - next February). I walk it off. However, since this... no energy, too much pain, etc. Any suggestions on exercising with not too much stress to my face??