Hi @Snoodie75,
Welcome to the Living with Facial Pain Community! We’re happy to have you join. My name is Elana and I’m a Ben’s Friends intern. I’m sorry to hear about how you and your family have been affected by your facial pain. My heart goes out to you all. Hopefully, you’ll be able to find some relief from engaging with this wonderful community. I read on your profile that you have four adopted rescue cats. How are they? They must keep you pretty busy. If you feel ready for it, I like to encourage new members to create their own discussion posts, since it is a great way to get to know the community. All you have to do is click on the “+ New Topic” button to create your own post. The “New User Help” tab also has a few tutorial videos that may be helpful if you are unsure of how to do certain things on the site. I hope this helps. May everyone in the world have the opportunity to experience one of your famous hugs. 
Wishing you and your family all the best,
Elana