what is the blood work for
I was told it was to check for infection, kidney function, liver function, anemia, etc. Anything that might give cause to postpone the surgery. It's also to have a baseline for you.
we they give me something to calm me before surgery
Right after I signed all my paperwork and talked to all the doctors and nurses they gave me a "cocktail" of drugs through the IV to relax me. I honestly don't remember anything after that. My family says I was cracking jokes and that the nurses even walked me to the bathroom and then to the OR. I suggest saying your goodbyes before they give you anything. lol
how long is a typical stay in the hospital I only live 2 hours from trenton so I am close
It varies. I have heard some say they were in only 3 days. I had a CSF leak post op and I got a UTI from the catheter, so I was in the hospital 7 days. 4 in ICU, 3 in a regular room.
what r some of the symptom I may experience after the surgery
While in the hospital I had nausea and pain. I don't remember much of the first day or two. I slept a lot that first week. I was asleep more than I was awake. I was told the side effects at first are similar to a bad concussion.
how long should I have someone stay with once i get home I have two small children but my family will be taking them from the first weeks and bringing home just to visit and then my mother in law is flying in from england to stay another two weeks but my husband may have to go back to work next tuesday
I have no children. My husband stayed with me the first week I was home. After that I had family members stop by during the day while he was at work. I gave them a key to the house so that I wouldn't have to get up and so that I could stay sleeping if they stopped by. I needed assistance doing chores for about the first month. I had someone get me food or cook for the first 2-3 weeks.
what do they typically give you for the pain
In the hospital I was given a pain pump with Dilaudid. (Morphine doesn't help me.) I needed Phenergan (nausea medicine) too. Once they switched me to pills in the hospital they gave me 2-4 mg of Dilaudid by mouth. Once I was discharged I was given Vicodin 10 mg (I had them switch it to Percocet because Vicodin bothered my stomach too much), Phenergan pills (or suppositories if needed) and Valium as a muscle relaxer. My neck hurt a lot. More than I expected. Ice packs and neck pillows were my best friends in and out of the hospital.
when do they they say u can drive
I don't remember them telling me not to drive, but I didn't for about the first 4-5 weeks. I knew that I couldn't. My head hurt too much, my vision was a little blurry, my balance was a little off and it hurt too much to turn my neck. I am fortunate that I have a lot of friends and family near by that drove me around.
Hope this helps!