Well hello there!
The folks here are great. Ask any questions you need. You are -not- alone. This is the most caring, educated and proactive group of level-headed people I've ever met in a medical setting.
I may ramble a bit but any information I share is offered in a complete spirit of caring and well wishes for you.
I'm so sorry that you have had to go through those experiences. Polyps are scary. Words of encouragement; just breathe and read info and relax as much as you are able. Everything between the doctor's appointments, sharing info with others in your life, reading about the possibilities, waiting for test results etc. can be so overwhelming.
I have polyps in my sinuses, as a side note. I almost fell over when they told me they found them and had to wait for a CT result to come back. Hang in there!
Yes, TN can be felt primarily in the ear and not the face. I have ATN. My pain is 85% in the ear. The other 15% is shared between the face and backside of my ear. It feels like a screwdriver being bored into my ear with no way of touching it or removing it. I can't express the pain and the helpless feeling. I'm a tough chick and I don't like to cry!
Have you noticed any triggers for your pain? Loud noises, high pitched noises, anything at all? If you can concentrate when the pain occurs on your surroundings and discover a trigger, knowing what causes the pain to spike can be half the battle! I found controlling my environment has led to a lowering of the pain in my ear substantially. High pitched noises set mine off; sirens, squeaky wheels at the grocers, people having squealing brakes from their car as it rolls to a stop beside me at a light...things like that. Now I know what to avoid. I also know now what to brace for.
If sound affects you, I suggest finding some cheap, silicone earplugs in a local gun shop (skeet) or for construction. They have a small nylon cord that connects the two and they are light, small and soft. Maybe $2. It hurts me to have them in but discovering this allows me to go to the grocery store now on my own and drive. I can use it for about 3 hours before the pain is too unbearable and I have to take them out.
Different medications work for different people. I took Topomax for about 6 years. I developed TN 10 years after stopping the drug. Haven't taken it since. The topomax may actually be working but just not completely. Speak to your Neurologist or read about different medications to see how other people have handled them, their successes and also specifically what the drug does etc. I have found understanding the way my body works and how the drugs affect my body will help so much! Now, whenever a different drug is suggested to me, I have this feeling of being more in control and having more power because I understand my body better. Definitely do not be affraid to ask your Neurologist! They are working for you! Never forget that or let them dictate your care without question. My suggestion as well, is to ask the Neurologist if they have ever worked with a TN patient before.
Good luck to you. I need to go try to sleep. Glad to see you've found us.
Best Regards,
Rockhopper