Kaz. Your story sure rings true for me. Probably more so than any other of the GPN types I've connected with over the years. There's always lots of similarities in everyones story but often there are lots of variations.
Are you also on the GPN facebook group? A lot of people migrated over there and it's a bit more active on a daily basis. https://www.facebook.com/groups/16645264123/
Also, on this livingwithgpn.org site, if you click on the "Discussions" tab at the top of the page, you can go back through various discussions about symptoms, diagnosis, surgery, medication, etc. I know myself and others have left some pretty detailed entries about the nature of our own GPN progression, diagnosis and search for treatment and results.
My surgeon is Dr. Christopher Honey at the University of British Columbia. His specialty is around movement disorders, including MS. He actually checked me for MS during my initial consultation as I guess there is a much higher incidence of GPN or TN amongst people who have MS. He's got some info on his website that might be of interest http://www.drhoney.org/ . He doesn't really address GPN on there. He does talk about Trigeminal Neuralgia but the primary surgery for that is still the MVD. His comment to me was that the trigeminal nerve is much more easily exposed and moved for the purpose of an MVD, so the chance of incidental damage is much, much lower. The GP nerve, on the other hand requires a bit of digging just for the purpose of exposing it, moving it and then buffering it. He said that the rate of complications, as a result is much higher due to potential additional damage to the GP nerve and the buffering not lasting in the long term. He said that the facial muscles controlled by the GP nerve all have almost like secondary support from other nerves and so severing it seems to alleviate all the complications due to additional damage and ensures long term permanent relief. He said that all 7 of his previous GP surgeries were successful. He said that the facial after effects varied for each person, but none had facial droop. Tended to be limited to swallowing issues. He said that everyone would say that the procedure was worth it. I have to say that I can't say the same for the many people I've connected with over the net who had the MVD. There are some that it did provide relief to, but I've been suprised how many have expressed regret. some have even had it done more than once.
In North America we've got a couple of websites called ratemd.com and healthgrades.com, where you can search for doctors by name or by specialty and the region they serve. You can search for neuro surgeons and then look at the ratings they've gotten from patients and often the procedures they've done and how they've turned out. I'm sure there would be something similar for Australia. it's a good way to weed through all the possibilities. I was suprised myself that within neuro surgery there are many sub specialties.
Another thing I found was that my Pain Management Specialist was a wonderful resource and probably the most knowledgable person I met as far as GPN. She was the one that directed me to Dr. Honey and actually shared with me the stories of several of her previous patients who ended up going through her to Dr. Honey for the GPN resection and assured me that they were all happy and told me what a wonderful person Dr. Honey was. He really was. I finally felt like I met someone that understood me from the minute we met.
I hope that acupuncture continues to work for you. But keep up the search.
If there really isn't anyone in Australia, maybe they'll send you to Vancouver. Lots of Australians here, mostly headed to the ski hills.