Hi everyone,
While i've been struggling with it for years, this is only a couple months past my diagnosis date. I try to always stay positive but lately I am feeling so hopeless and alone. My neurologist has been less than present with me (had to ask her what she was treating me for and if it was TN on the second appointment. She said, "yeah, that is what i've been doing" and didn't say anything else than that). The meds have not been working well to control the pain and we've been piling on the opiods to hold me off till I get a new neuro and into pain management. This has left me drugged, emotional, constipated, dopey (memory problems), and uber tired all the time. Even with this, I still have pain. I just got an appointment date with pain management in a couple weeks but have had no luck finding a doc with experience in ATN; my primary care person is looking as well. I'm also in the middle of my residency as a chaplain and feel like I can't do my job at all. Without the pain meds, i'm over the top hurting all the time, emotional, exhausted, and forgetful. With them, i'm emotional, beyond tired, forgetful, with a bit less pain. It's really a no-win situation I guess.
I just don't know what to do anymore. I'm only 31 and am thinking to myself, "are you ever going to be able to hold down a job"? "Are you even going to be able to make it through this residency"? I feel like there is no one to really talk to who doesn't get nervous when I ask these questions. My therapist is great but he's really the only one. How do we live like this? I love my life but feel like it continues to be ripped out from under me. It was bad enough when I just had really bad TMJ problems my first 28 years of life. Now with ATN on top of it some days I just really feel like curling up in bed all day and drowning out everything and everyone out.
How do you all get through these kind of days? I'm quite certain we all experience them from time to time. Like my therapist today said, I would really like to knock my inability to function down from a 99 to a 98 (or even 97 if i'm lucky). Any suggestions on how to cope?