# Help me Please

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**Created:** [December 17, 2012, 11:31am UTC](https://forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/t/help-me-please/10262 "2012-12-17T11:31:34Z")\
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**Author:** ![amol](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a4c791/32.png) [@amol](https://forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/u/amol)\
**Post date:** [December 17, 2012, 11:31am UTC](https://forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/t/help-me-please/10262/1 "2012-12-17T11:31:34Z")

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Can someone help me please? My GP referred me to a psychiatrist (which I did not know about), and refuses to refer me to a neurologist; She has put me on amitriptyline 25 mg.

I turned up at the clinic thinking it was a pain management clinic but it turned out to be a mental health clinic??????

Do we have any advocate in UK who can help me to complain about this and ge her to refer me t a neurologist.

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**Author:** ![MimiF](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex027/user_avatar/forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/mimif/32/5948_2.png) [@MimiF](https://forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/u/MimiF)\
**Post date:** [December 18, 2012, 3:38pm UTC](https://forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/t/help-me-please/10262/2 "2012-12-18T15:38:45Z")

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I don’t know anything about the UK health system, but wanted to say I hope you find another doctor and pain relief soon! Can you go to a hospital emergency room with your pain?  
What your doctor did was very wrong !! Makes me angry. I hope you can report his insensitivity as well as his uncaring manner and inability to treat you to someone higher up.  
Thinking of you, (( hugs )) Mimi

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**Author:** ![Craig1](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex027/user_avatar/forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/craig1/32/5422_2.png) [@Craig1](https://forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/u/Craig1)\
**Post date:** [December 22, 2012, 3:27am UTC](https://forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/t/help-me-please/10262/3 "2012-12-22T03:27:44Z")

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How b... ignorant of the GP. Amitriptyline 25mg... well that's a start ... I do hope you can get better attention than that.. another doctor?? I'm really not sure if it's worth the energy required to go thru the complaint route. I certainly don't have that level of energy, or more pointedly, the engagement, to bother. I'd just move on.. stuff the lot of them . ( I'm not trying to tell you how to run your life). A lot of ATN / TN sufferers will have depressive episodes, and it really is something to be aware of, particualry if you've never had an episode in your "normal " i.e. pre ATN / TN life. But a psychiatrist??? Yes the pain is all in your head alright, right there in the trigeminal b... nerve!!! All the best to you.

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**Author:** ![amol](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a4c791/32.png) [@amol](https://forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/u/amol)\
**Post date:** [December 22, 2012, 10:53am UTC](https://forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/t/help-me-please/10262/4 "2012-12-22T10:53:39Z")

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Hi Craig,

Thank you for your comment; that is exactly how I felt. what a cheek! Craig, it is not easy to change doctors now-a-days in UK. Things are really bad.

Anyway, she saw me on Thursday and apologized, reluctantly she referred me to a neurologist. I do not think she did the referral properly, though. NHS may well reject it!!! I think she referred me so that I withdraw my complaint.

I think i will wait to respond to her until I hear from the neurologist; I think this is my best strategy!!!

Willing to take any other suggestions from anyone.

By-the-way, Craig, I can see the picture of Lord Shiva behind you!!! I love Shiva. Have you ever been to India to see any of 12 temples of Shiva?
