# Cold and stubborness don't mix

**URL:** <https://forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/t/cold-and-stubborness-dont-mix/4263>\
**Category:** General TN & GPN (Old Site)\
**Created:** [February 10, 2013, 1:37am UTC](https://forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/t/cold-and-stubborness-dont-mix/4263 "2013-02-10T01:37:54Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 8\
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**Author:** ![Linda6](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/6f9a4e/32.png) [@Linda6](https://forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/u/Linda6)\
**Post date:** [February 10, 2013, 1:37am UTC](https://forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/t/cold-and-stubborness-dont-mix/4263/1 "2013-02-10T01:37:54Z")

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_ **Went cross country skiing today with a group of friends and of course hubby. Had a great day. The sun was out, it had just freshly snowed alot lol, the trail was groomed perfectly. Should of been a perfect day. Then bang there it was "TN pain" The cold which I know does hit me. Soooo unbelievably frusrating, yesterday so excited about a peanut butter sandwich and today could barely talk or eat because I spent the afternoon out in the fresh air and sun...REALLY?? Well I'm sorry nerve you are just going to have to get over yourself because I am not going to sit around in the house on such a beautiful day and watch everyone else enjoy it!!!!!!** _

_ **Maybe I have the wrong attitude and am being too stubborn for my own good but I did not go through what I did to still have to say "No I'm sorry I can't do that".** _

_**Let's beat it...let's show it who is boss!!!! :)**_

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**Author:** ![tiger4nikki](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex027/user_avatar/forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/tiger4nikki/32/6313_2.png) [@tiger4nikki](https://forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/u/tiger4nikki)\
**Post date:** [February 10, 2013, 10:08pm UTC](https://forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/t/cold-and-stubborness-dont-mix/4263/2 "2013-02-10T22:08:39Z")

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Do you have a neoprene mask or something like that? It can REALLY keep the wind off of you so you can enjoy it! Good luck!

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**Author:** ![Jackie5](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f04885/32.png) [@Jackie5](https://forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/u/Jackie5)\
**Post date:** [February 10, 2013, 10:39pm UTC](https://forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/t/cold-and-stubborness-dont-mix/4263/3 "2013-02-10T22:39:50Z")

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You go girl, you have TN, but it does not have YOU!

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**Author:** ![Linda6](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/6f9a4e/32.png) [@Linda6](https://forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/u/Linda6)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2013, 2:05am UTC](https://forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/t/cold-and-stubborness-dont-mix/4263/4 "2013-02-11T02:05:52Z")

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_ **I have to admit today was a morphine day...alot of pain but hey so it was a morphine day, not the end of the world. Hubby went skiing again but I bowed out, stubborn but not stupid lol. I spent time with my daughter at the pool and hot tub so still had another good day. Monday morning I can say..."had a great weekend thanks" and mean it.** _

_**Have a good pain free day everyone :)**_

_ **Linda** _

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**Author:** ![shepherdgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/da6949/32.png) [@shepherdgirl](https://forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/u/shepherdgirl)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2013, 8:40am UTC](https://forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/t/cold-and-stubborness-dont-mix/4263/5 "2013-02-11T08:40:56Z")

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You so encourage me!! I am feeling so dejected right now. I needed this kick in the backside to get me facing tomorrow! GO GIRL YOU CAN DO IT!! blessings and hugs~~

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**Author:** ![JAC](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex027/user_avatar/forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/jac/32/951_2.png) [@JAC](https://forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/u/JAC)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2013, 4:44pm UTC](https://forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/t/cold-and-stubborness-dont-mix/4263/6 "2013-02-11T16:44:04Z")

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In the winter when I am out running, I use a balaclava mask. I am able to pull it down on my chin and it keeps my face a bit warmer. Sorry to hear that you are going through that and I agree, nerve, you are just going to have to take a back seat!!! Wish it would really listen. :(

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**Author:** ![Linda6](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/6f9a4e/32.png) [@Linda6](https://forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/u/Linda6)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2013, 3:27am UTC](https://forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/t/cold-and-stubborness-dont-mix/4263/7 "2013-02-13T03:27:17Z")

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Im still taking morphine to keep the pain down since Saturday's skiing trip. Hope it calms down soon. I read online about getting wind in your ear, could that be it since I am still healing from a MVD? I am going to take better care of myself outside while skiing(yes I am still going), not the big trips anymore for now but the smaller ones. Thanks for all the advice on how to keep my face warm.

Here is a funny story for everyone...I Hate Hats!!! even as a kid I use to bury them and tell my grannie I lost them..lol. for now I am going to wear hoodies and ear muffs. That should be ok, eh? Yes I am from Canada.lol

Have a great pain free day :) Care about you all

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**Author:** ![Linda6](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/6f9a4e/32.png) [@Linda6](https://forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/u/Linda6)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2013, 3:51am UTC](https://forum.livingwithfacialpain.org/t/cold-and-stubborness-dont-mix/4263/8 "2013-02-13T03:51:30Z")

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Since my MVD and have gotten back to work and have been doing normal stuff around the house again also getting out with friends I just have a new strength. I want this over and my life back. Maybe I have been pushing it but I am so done with it all. Happy to hear it encourages you as well. YOU GO RIGHT ALONG WITH ME!! Hugs back to you   
  
shepherdgirl said:

> You so encourage me!! I am feeling so dejected right now. I needed this kick in the backside to get me facing tomorrow! GO GIRL YOU CAN DO IT!! blessings and hugs~~
